Hate when I feel the need to clear my head, it means that not everything is going well. So it 1:32am and I pretty much just came from a walk that lasted over an hr. I cried, laughed, smiled, sang; but most of all, I cleared my head. Now I remembered what my priorities are and well....back to the books. At this age everything else is an added bonus and not that Important. Am writing from my heart right now...............Hopefully by the time i go to bed and wake up tomorrow, Everything will make more sense.
~B!
Friday, August 21, 2009
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Been a Haute Minute.......
Been quite a haute minute!
For weeks, i have been staring @ my blog every time i log in without writing about anything. I do have a lot of thoughts going through my head, yet can't seem to think of anything quite worth blogging about or maybe i just don't know how to express my thoughts.....but anyway, am gonna make an effort today. So here we go***
Am resuming back to school this month......am starting my Msc. & hopefully, by the time i get done with that, i would have a great job n things will be set in place for the next level
My elder brother is getting married on the 29th of this month.....really happy for him. It's kinda overwhelming whenever i think about it....don't really know why.....guess it's probably cos the thoughts of him getting married is kinda "grand" in some kinda way ....kinda just realizing he's actually old n the memories of childhood n us growing up is still quite vivid in my mind. Every time i think about it, i find myself tryna understand how come he has grown so fast n now getting married..... hmmn! before i finish spelling M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E, my sister n other two brothers will start getting married too....In a couple of years from now, my dad will probably start dealing with the "Empty Nest Syndrome".....lol!
Anyway, i guess growing up is inevitable n getting married is part of life as well....... Wish him a happy married life n God's abundant blessings.
My dad n godfather will be visiting this month from naija.....looking forward to seeing them.
Am tryna move into a new apartment but the thought of parking n moving is killing me ............i hate, hate, n hate parking n moving......can't wait for the time when i will finally park, move, and settled down in my own home.
Lately, am beginning to develop some kinda discomfort that i only feel when am about to talk on the phone.....don't really enjoy staying on the phone for too long .....n it's getting worse cos am not keeping in touch with people as much i would love to.
Ok! now am tired n feeling sleepy.....mehn! i think it's time to bounce n retire back onto my bed....
Guess i tried, at least i made an effort & was able to get some writing done.......y'all be safe, aiit.
!!{BTW, that's the new sign for peace}
Beyond
For weeks, i have been staring @ my blog every time i log in without writing about anything. I do have a lot of thoughts going through my head, yet can't seem to think of anything quite worth blogging about or maybe i just don't know how to express my thoughts.....but anyway, am gonna make an effort today. So here we go***
Am resuming back to school this month......am starting my Msc. & hopefully, by the time i get done with that, i would have a great job n things will be set in place for the next level
My elder brother is getting married on the 29th of this month.....really happy for him. It's kinda overwhelming whenever i think about it....don't really know why.....guess it's probably cos the thoughts of him getting married is kinda "grand" in some kinda way ....kinda just realizing he's actually old n the memories of childhood n us growing up is still quite vivid in my mind. Every time i think about it, i find myself tryna understand how come he has grown so fast n now getting married..... hmmn! before i finish spelling M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E, my sister n other two brothers will start getting married too....In a couple of years from now, my dad will probably start dealing with the "Empty Nest Syndrome".....lol!
Anyway, i guess growing up is inevitable n getting married is part of life as well....... Wish him a happy married life n God's abundant blessings.
My dad n godfather will be visiting this month from naija.....looking forward to seeing them.
Am tryna move into a new apartment but the thought of parking n moving is killing me ............i hate, hate, n hate parking n moving......can't wait for the time when i will finally park, move, and settled down in my own home.
Lately, am beginning to develop some kinda discomfort that i only feel when am about to talk on the phone.....don't really enjoy staying on the phone for too long .....n it's getting worse cos am not keeping in touch with people as much i would love to.
Ok! now am tired n feeling sleepy.....mehn! i think it's time to bounce n retire back onto my bed....
Guess i tried, at least i made an effort & was able to get some writing done.......y'all be safe, aiit.
!!{BTW, that's the new sign for peace}
Beyond
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
RELIGION AND RELATIONSHIPS
Relationships, Relationships, Relationships..........yh, that's what we will be talking about.
Relationships are complicated but could be very simple at the same time (if one understands the situation). Every relationship is unique in it's own way, which is very reasonable considering the fact that every individual is very different and unique.
I am really worried, concerned and curious about this. Am from a muslim and christain family, my dad and my brothers are all muslims while me and my sister are christains. My parent do not mind in anyway as they gave us the liberty to choose which religion we want as long as you are dilligent and committed to it. The funny thing about the situation now is that all my brothers are dating christains (committed relationship) and none of them mind neither does anyone in the family either. My sister is dating a christain, so she really doesn't have to worry about this.
Here is the deal for me, most of the guys tryna get with me are muslims and i just can't help but wonder how that will work. It's not like i mind dating or marrying a muslim but am worried about whoever it is i choose to date/ marry & what might happen later on in life. I always make it clear to them that am not willing to change my religion for any reason. Most of them are relationship worthy guys and are willing n ready to commit but then the religion differences keeps coming up. Some of them claims not to have a problem with me being a christain and are willing to have a relationship with me regardless of my religion.
Ok, so i talked to my brothers and they apparently don't think/see anything wrong with the idea of dating a muslim if he's ready n willing to let me keep being a christain; but then my close friends don't seem to like the idea cos they think the man might later demand that i become a muslim. I perfectly understand both POV but then..............uuuurrrrrrrgggggghhhhhh!......it's all confusing.
So, here is my question....(remember, am a female).....How important is religion in a relationship/marriage? Does religion really matters in a relationship/marriage or not? What is your opinion about couples with different religions?
I would really love to hear what y'all think especially the married folks in the house.
NB~ Congratulations to my elder brother and his girlfriend.....they got engaged yesterday...... yep! he proposed and yesterday was her birthday too......How sweet is that, getting engaged on your birthday. Am really happy for them......Should decide the wedding date before the end of summer.
xoxo,
Beyond
Relationships are complicated but could be very simple at the same time (if one understands the situation). Every relationship is unique in it's own way, which is very reasonable considering the fact that every individual is very different and unique.
I am really worried, concerned and curious about this. Am from a muslim and christain family, my dad and my brothers are all muslims while me and my sister are christains. My parent do not mind in anyway as they gave us the liberty to choose which religion we want as long as you are dilligent and committed to it. The funny thing about the situation now is that all my brothers are dating christains (committed relationship) and none of them mind neither does anyone in the family either. My sister is dating a christain, so she really doesn't have to worry about this.
Here is the deal for me, most of the guys tryna get with me are muslims and i just can't help but wonder how that will work. It's not like i mind dating or marrying a muslim but am worried about whoever it is i choose to date/ marry & what might happen later on in life. I always make it clear to them that am not willing to change my religion for any reason. Most of them are relationship worthy guys and are willing n ready to commit but then the religion differences keeps coming up. Some of them claims not to have a problem with me being a christain and are willing to have a relationship with me regardless of my religion.
Ok, so i talked to my brothers and they apparently don't think/see anything wrong with the idea of dating a muslim if he's ready n willing to let me keep being a christain; but then my close friends don't seem to like the idea cos they think the man might later demand that i become a muslim. I perfectly understand both POV but then..............uuuurrrrrrrgggggghhhhhh!......it's all confusing.
So, here is my question....(remember, am a female).....How important is religion in a relationship/marriage? Does religion really matters in a relationship/marriage or not? What is your opinion about couples with different religions?
I would really love to hear what y'all think especially the married folks in the house.
NB~ Congratulations to my elder brother and his girlfriend.....they got engaged yesterday...... yep! he proposed and yesterday was her birthday too......How sweet is that, getting engaged on your birthday. Am really happy for them......Should decide the wedding date before the end of summer.
xoxo,
Beyond
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Amor Vincit Omnia
Hello my people, how is y'all weekend going.........hope you are enjoying n loving it so far. Woke up this morning feeling great, spent some time meditating on the word of God like i do daily but afterwards, i couldn't get rid of a thought that came to my mind......" It is easier to love mankind as a whole than to love one's neighbor" .......just thought i should share this with y'all; in hopes that y'all will let me know how true you think this is or what your take is on this.
Rememeber, "love your neighbor as yourself" is one of Gods' commandments and like they say "Love conquers all".
Y'all enjoy your wekend n be safe......I love you all.......muah!
~Beyond
Rememeber, "love your neighbor as yourself" is one of Gods' commandments and like they say "Love conquers all".
Y'all enjoy your wekend n be safe......I love you all.......muah!
~Beyond
Friday, June 19, 2009
NATURAL HAIR; CALL TO RESCUE
Am so glad it's Friday.....it almost didn't want to come fast enough, but hey, it's finally here. Okay my people, i need some help with my hair oooo, sigh!!! I cut off almost all my hair living about an inch on December 10th, 2007 and i have left my hair all natural since then which is about a year and half or so.
I have been loving the fact that i went natural even though it was so difficult dealing with my hair at the beginning. Most of my siblings n friends didn't support the idea of me going natural but i did.........which means i had to stay committed to being natural or i will get laughed at if i decided to change my hair. Since then i have learn to be innovative with my hair and the styles i wear.
I changed the hair products i use when i cut my hair and everything seems to be working good for me, but for the past couple of months, i have noticed that my hair n scalp looks dry/get dry easily regardless of what hair products i use. Now, am beginning to think that maybe i need to use different hair products or do something different.
I usually use Pantene shampoo and leave-in conditioner which am not sure is the best shampoo/conditioner for natural hair; use Softsheen care free curls and Softsheen moisturizing finishing lotion for my curls; use Softsheen revitalizing mousse and luster curl texturizer to make my hair softer (because my natural hair is as hard as it can get); use organic olive oil moisturizing hair lotion often, and hair jam sometimes.
I usually wash my hair every weekend but sometimes, i wash it every two weeks depending on the kind of hair style i have on and how busy i am. Lately, my hair has turned into something else, and i know it's time to do something about it but i honestly do not know what to do.
If you have helpful information about how i could care better for my hair.....you could email it to me @ beyond_lifepursuit@hotmail.com or you could just write it as a comment. Also, If you know any blog about natural hair or bloggers that have natural hair and talks about it on their blogs, kindly let me know. So, blogsville........please come to my rescue.
Y'all have fun and enjoy your weekend........be safe!!!!!!!
Kisses,
Beyond
I have been loving the fact that i went natural even though it was so difficult dealing with my hair at the beginning. Most of my siblings n friends didn't support the idea of me going natural but i did.........which means i had to stay committed to being natural or i will get laughed at if i decided to change my hair. Since then i have learn to be innovative with my hair and the styles i wear.
I changed the hair products i use when i cut my hair and everything seems to be working good for me, but for the past couple of months, i have noticed that my hair n scalp looks dry/get dry easily regardless of what hair products i use. Now, am beginning to think that maybe i need to use different hair products or do something different.
I usually use Pantene shampoo and leave-in conditioner which am not sure is the best shampoo/conditioner for natural hair; use Softsheen care free curls and Softsheen moisturizing finishing lotion for my curls; use Softsheen revitalizing mousse and luster curl texturizer to make my hair softer (because my natural hair is as hard as it can get); use organic olive oil moisturizing hair lotion often, and hair jam sometimes.
I usually wash my hair every weekend but sometimes, i wash it every two weeks depending on the kind of hair style i have on and how busy i am. Lately, my hair has turned into something else, and i know it's time to do something about it but i honestly do not know what to do.
If you have helpful information about how i could care better for my hair.....you could email it to me @ beyond_lifepursuit@hotmail.com or you could just write it as a comment. Also, If you know any blog about natural hair or bloggers that have natural hair and talks about it on their blogs, kindly let me know. So, blogsville........please come to my rescue.
Y'all have fun and enjoy your weekend........be safe!!!!!!!
Kisses,
Beyond
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Bits n Pieces
Yours faithfully is so stressed out now, it's just the grace of God that keeps me going lately. Mehn, trying to get a real job in this so-called recession period is no joke at all. Sometimes, i wonder why i didn't graduate earlier or probably stay in school a lil longer cos this job search is driving me nuts. My bank account light is becoming deem but hopefully it won't enter red before God work something out for me. On the brighter note tho, am still alive n kicking so i guess that's more than enough reasons to be grateful........Thank you Lord.
Thanks to everyone that wished me good luck and congratulated me on my graduation.... My research n presentations went great; exams & graduation were great as well..... Thanks so much, i really appreciate it.
To those who have been with me for a while, y'all will remember my friend that i talked about here. I promised to update y'all about whatever happens; okay, so here is the update from that. I met and talked with my friend as agreed. We started gisting as usually and i was lucky enough to get a great opportunity to bring up the subject. He made a mistake and i actually corrected him, after which i was able to bring up the issue. I told him about how i have noticed this for quite a while n have been thinking about talking to him concerning it cos i believe he could make some changes that will be to his benefit. I explain to him that i wasn't trying to ridicule him in any way, rather, i am trying to help him. To my surprise, he didn't get angry about it nor took it as an insult. He actually thanked me and said that no one has ever been able to talk to him about it. We finally agreed on him taking some Internet courses which we both thought might help and so far, he seem dedicated to helping himself grow n making the necessary changes. I come around to help him whenever am less busy and it seems like he's getting some work done........... On that note, thanks to blogsville for their moral support n y'allz ever-ready to listen ears.
It sure seem like everything always have a way of working itself out at the end of the day. I am tired o, there are so much thoughts in my head........i guess i will continue this later.
Take care my people, will be back....
~Beyond
Thanks to everyone that wished me good luck and congratulated me on my graduation.... My research n presentations went great; exams & graduation were great as well..... Thanks so much, i really appreciate it.
To those who have been with me for a while, y'all will remember my friend that i talked about here. I promised to update y'all about whatever happens; okay, so here is the update from that. I met and talked with my friend as agreed. We started gisting as usually and i was lucky enough to get a great opportunity to bring up the subject. He made a mistake and i actually corrected him, after which i was able to bring up the issue. I told him about how i have noticed this for quite a while n have been thinking about talking to him concerning it cos i believe he could make some changes that will be to his benefit. I explain to him that i wasn't trying to ridicule him in any way, rather, i am trying to help him. To my surprise, he didn't get angry about it nor took it as an insult. He actually thanked me and said that no one has ever been able to talk to him about it. We finally agreed on him taking some Internet courses which we both thought might help and so far, he seem dedicated to helping himself grow n making the necessary changes. I come around to help him whenever am less busy and it seems like he's getting some work done........... On that note, thanks to blogsville for their moral support n y'allz ever-ready to listen ears.
It sure seem like everything always have a way of working itself out at the end of the day. I am tired o, there are so much thoughts in my head........i guess i will continue this later.
Take care my people, will be back....
~Beyond
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Mehn!.......it's been a very busy while
Hello Everyone,
Guess you are all doing great n enjoying every bit of the summer so far. Am doing ok, been very busy but will surely return before y'all say RETURN.....lol!
I have a lot to talk about but am quite tired to start writing......I will be back soon people.
Thanks to everyone for their congratulatory message, really appreciate it. Y'all take care and be safe!!!
XOXO,
~Beyond
Guess you are all doing great n enjoying every bit of the summer so far. Am doing ok, been very busy but will surely return before y'all say RETURN.....lol!
I have a lot to talk about but am quite tired to start writing......I will be back soon people.
Thanks to everyone for their congratulatory message, really appreciate it. Y'all take care and be safe!!!
XOXO,
~Beyond
Saturday, April 25, 2009
Busy days!!!! + Happy Birthday to my Big Brova
Hope everyone is doing great.......sorry for my temporary absence. I have been very busy with school work n life in general. I have three research papers to write before final exams start n f/exams are fast approaching too.
Finals starts the first week in may, i should be done by the 13th of may n grad is on the 16th of may. I have picked up my gown n cap and am getting a lil bit overwhelmed, excited n anxious whenever i think about it.
Trying to get all my assignments, projects n paper turned in as soon as possible as just not been so fun for me. I also have a presentation this week, all faculty members in my department will be in attendance and it's open to public audience as well; but it's so funny that am actually not so nervous about it. I have everything prepared already n am seriously praying about it.......i pray it's gon be great.
Happy Birthday to my Big Brother. Wish you many great n fulfilled years to come n May you continue to be a blessing to all that you come in contact with. May the lord continue to Strengthen you n meet u at the point of all your need.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!.....n i love you.
Anyways, i will definitely try to blog n do blog rounds when am chanced but till then, am back to writing these boring papers.
Y'all take care n be safe......muah!!!
~Beyond
Finals starts the first week in may, i should be done by the 13th of may n grad is on the 16th of may. I have picked up my gown n cap and am getting a lil bit overwhelmed, excited n anxious whenever i think about it.
Trying to get all my assignments, projects n paper turned in as soon as possible as just not been so fun for me. I also have a presentation this week, all faculty members in my department will be in attendance and it's open to public audience as well; but it's so funny that am actually not so nervous about it. I have everything prepared already n am seriously praying about it.......i pray it's gon be great.
Happy Birthday to my Big Brother. Wish you many great n fulfilled years to come n May you continue to be a blessing to all that you come in contact with. May the lord continue to Strengthen you n meet u at the point of all your need.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!.....n i love you.
Anyways, i will definitely try to blog n do blog rounds when am chanced but till then, am back to writing these boring papers.
Y'all take care n be safe......muah!!!
~Beyond
Monday, April 13, 2009
Happy Easter!!!
To everyone out there, Have a wonderful easter n enjoy every moment of it.
Take care n be safe, xoxo.
Take care n be safe, xoxo.
~Beyond
Thursday, April 9, 2009
......Yet you went about boasting; How desperate.....
Thanks to everyone for their comments on my last post, i really do appreciate it. So i have not told him yet... but i will see if using a joke method will work....will let y'all know how things go.
Hope y'allz week has been going great so far. Mehn!, it's been one long week, tryna get everything together n finish most of my projects before spring break. On the brighter side though, am finally on spring break, don't have to see my instructors for a week....yay!
Hope y'all already went Easter shopping cos i might just show up at your door.....yeah, it's you am talking to.....lol. Am going home today, am hoping n praying it rain so i don't loose my appetite for hot eba n vegetable soup(a very wicked one, you know the kind that has more that ten lifes).
Mehn!.....some guys can be so stupid( no personal insult intended), so much that i can't but wonder if that's the way God created them or they evolved to that level of stupidity. A couple of days ago, i heard that i have an ex-boyfriend which i didn't know about.....you see how confusing that sounds.
Ok.... on Saturday, i was in school working on one of my projects when i got a call from a naija guy who use to be in my school(lets call him homeboy~ we ain't that cool tho). We got talking and homeboy asked me if i was going for another ex-school mates' graduation. This i what the conversation was like
Homeboy: Hey, are you going for A**hole graduation?
Me: Nah mehn!... that's too far.....are you going?
Homeboy: what?!.... why would i ?.....after all, you wey be the ex-girlfriend no dey go
Me: what?!..... what the heck did you just say?.......
Homeboy: Am i lying?
Me: what the heck are you talking about?.... me, ex-girlfriend ke..... How come?
homeboy: so, you think i don't know......
Me: i don't know what you talking about.......except if it's possible for only one person to be in a relationship........ of all people, naa a**hole me i go come date....hmmn!
Homeboy: ...... you think i don't know...... you think am a small boy or what.....keep deceiving yourself....anyways, i will talk to you later.
Homeboy hang up with so much anger before i could even say "ha".
See me see wahala..... which kain yamayama be this. To think this was the end of my nightmare was a lie....On Monday, i was at work(on campus) surfing facebook when one idiot Asian boy walked into my office to make photocopies. The boy wouldn't mind his business as he continue poking his head to see what i was doing on the computer..... then he saw an update with A**hole picture, the boy said "is that not you ex-boyfriend?"......i looked at him shocked n confused thinking where the heck is all these coming from. Even an Asian boy has the guts to tell me who my supposedly ex-boyfriend is.
Wow.....wonders shall never seize on planet earth. A**hole was a guy that came to my school(fresh from naija) two years ago. he spent a semester in my school before transferring to another school. At the beginning of the semester a**hole was TRYING to yarn dust in my ears. I noticed he was acting unnecessarily nice(which i never encouraged a bit) and i sense he was up to no good. So i immediately gave him a F**K OFF sign. I stopped talking to him (even tho he tried to start conversations with me several times which i never responded to) till the end of the semester when he was about to leave the school. We came across each other somewhere on campus n he told me he was leaving(which i already knew about) and i said my bye.
(Fast forward to 2yrs after) Am hearing that the boy is my ex....Naa so people they get ex; at least you have to be a boyfriend first before you can become an ex. I got pissed off cos i didn't like things like this messing with my rep n besides, i was getting worried (you never can be too sure who n where it started from)....to actually think that an Asian knows even before i knew is an insult. So i decided to find out what was going on.....
I called homeboy who started the drama to ask him what the deal is. He told me that A**hole told him that he supposedly dated me n was suppose to have sex ,with me if not for the fact that he left school after his first semester n all sorta crap (but what he didn't tell me was that they have both been broadcasting it cos the Asian boy said homeboy told him about it). I couldn't believe they have been going around saying all kind of stuff about me n to think i have been giving them the respect deserving of an human being not knowing they are both animals....is really messed up. I didn't even bother wasting my time trying to talk to A**hole and neither am talking to homeboy anymore, am just waiting for either of them to call me.....then they will regret the day they first saw me....that's why people like them never go too far in life.
Interesting!.... was all i could say. Come on now, how desperate can a guy be. Even if i was suppose to date someone.... it won't be an ugly orangutan like him ( i 4 put his pic here so everyone can see the beast am talking about, but i won't).....What does guys tend to gain from bragging n saying things that ain't true......Whoever knows people like this needs to tell them that bragging about things that never happened won't earn them any respect....
I have tagged their number as one of my "never pick"..... Homeboy has been calling me for the past two day but i refuse to answer his phone call, and am waiting for the beast to call me again, if they born am well, then i will show him that khaki no be leather. Blogville, plenty wah! dey happen for this world o...
y'all have a great Easter hols mehn, have fun, n be happy.........muah!!!
Beyond~
Hope y'allz week has been going great so far. Mehn!, it's been one long week, tryna get everything together n finish most of my projects before spring break. On the brighter side though, am finally on spring break, don't have to see my instructors for a week....yay!
Hope y'all already went Easter shopping cos i might just show up at your door.....yeah, it's you am talking to.....lol. Am going home today, am hoping n praying it rain so i don't loose my appetite for hot eba n vegetable soup(a very wicked one, you know the kind that has more that ten lifes).
Mehn!.....some guys can be so stupid( no personal insult intended), so much that i can't but wonder if that's the way God created them or they evolved to that level of stupidity. A couple of days ago, i heard that i have an ex-boyfriend which i didn't know about.....you see how confusing that sounds.
Ok.... on Saturday, i was in school working on one of my projects when i got a call from a naija guy who use to be in my school(lets call him homeboy~ we ain't that cool tho). We got talking and homeboy asked me if i was going for another ex-school mates' graduation. This i what the conversation was like
Homeboy: Hey, are you going for A**hole graduation?
Me: Nah mehn!... that's too far.....are you going?
Homeboy: what?!.... why would i ?.....after all, you wey be the ex-girlfriend no dey go
Me: what?!..... what the heck did you just say?.......
Homeboy: Am i lying?
Me: what the heck are you talking about?.... me, ex-girlfriend ke..... How come?
homeboy: so, you think i don't know......
Me: i don't know what you talking about.......except if it's possible for only one person to be in a relationship........ of all people, naa a**hole me i go come date....hmmn!
Homeboy: ...... you think i don't know...... you think am a small boy or what.....keep deceiving yourself....anyways, i will talk to you later.
Homeboy hang up with so much anger before i could even say "ha".
See me see wahala..... which kain yamayama be this. To think this was the end of my nightmare was a lie....On Monday, i was at work(on campus) surfing facebook when one idiot Asian boy walked into my office to make photocopies. The boy wouldn't mind his business as he continue poking his head to see what i was doing on the computer..... then he saw an update with A**hole picture, the boy said "is that not you ex-boyfriend?"......i looked at him shocked n confused thinking where the heck is all these coming from. Even an Asian boy has the guts to tell me who my supposedly ex-boyfriend is.
Wow.....wonders shall never seize on planet earth. A**hole was a guy that came to my school(fresh from naija) two years ago. he spent a semester in my school before transferring to another school. At the beginning of the semester a**hole was TRYING to yarn dust in my ears. I noticed he was acting unnecessarily nice(which i never encouraged a bit) and i sense he was up to no good. So i immediately gave him a F**K OFF sign. I stopped talking to him (even tho he tried to start conversations with me several times which i never responded to) till the end of the semester when he was about to leave the school. We came across each other somewhere on campus n he told me he was leaving(which i already knew about) and i said my bye.
(Fast forward to 2yrs after) Am hearing that the boy is my ex....Naa so people they get ex; at least you have to be a boyfriend first before you can become an ex. I got pissed off cos i didn't like things like this messing with my rep n besides, i was getting worried (you never can be too sure who n where it started from)....to actually think that an Asian knows even before i knew is an insult. So i decided to find out what was going on.....
I called homeboy who started the drama to ask him what the deal is. He told me that A**hole told him that he supposedly dated me n was suppose to have sex ,with me if not for the fact that he left school after his first semester n all sorta crap (but what he didn't tell me was that they have both been broadcasting it cos the Asian boy said homeboy told him about it). I couldn't believe they have been going around saying all kind of stuff about me n to think i have been giving them the respect deserving of an human being not knowing they are both animals....is really messed up. I didn't even bother wasting my time trying to talk to A**hole and neither am talking to homeboy anymore, am just waiting for either of them to call me.....then they will regret the day they first saw me....that's why people like them never go too far in life.
Interesting!.... was all i could say. Come on now, how desperate can a guy be. Even if i was suppose to date someone.... it won't be an ugly orangutan like him ( i 4 put his pic here so everyone can see the beast am talking about, but i won't).....What does guys tend to gain from bragging n saying things that ain't true......Whoever knows people like this needs to tell them that bragging about things that never happened won't earn them any respect....
I have tagged their number as one of my "never pick"..... Homeboy has been calling me for the past two day but i refuse to answer his phone call, and am waiting for the beast to call me again, if they born am well, then i will show him that khaki no be leather. Blogville, plenty wah! dey happen for this world o...
y'all have a great Easter hols mehn, have fun, n be happy.........muah!!!
Beyond~
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